We’re coming up on Halloween, and we spent some time perusing websites for costumes to purchase. I would love to say that I am going to design and sew the children’s costumes this year, but let’s be reasonable.
While we were searching for the desired Luke and Leia costumes, I kept seeing Lady Gaga outfits. For women. For children. For dogs. WHO IS THIS? I asked my husband. Who proceeded to make RAH RAH RARARAH noises until I started squinting at him.
We don’t have cable, I listen to the CBC radio while driving, we only this summer got high speed internet, and the majority of my social interaction occurs with other people… who ALSO have no idea what the deal is exactly. I’m pretty sure I’ve seen it wrapped in bacon, but I’m not so sure. Was that her or Sandy Skoglund?
Now that we can use YouTube with our gloriously fast internet, it didn’t take me long to find out. After getting over the initial shock that I was watching a mini-Madonna, I was blown away by the content of the music video. I don’t think I have sat through a regular ol’ music video in nearly 7 years. That’s a long time to be out of the loop. And I’ve had a major perspective shift.
This was no Madonna hip thrusting, PVC coated ab-busting dance move. This was simulated sex all over the place. Set to music. I know 8 year olds who love Gaga. 12 year olds. Which seems somehow worse.
I didn’t want to throw a blanket over LadyG, but it did make me want to hide my daughter. And son.
Rock and roll was devil’s music. Elvis was evil incarnate. Madonna with her burning crosses and pointy bra was a nightmare to many parents I am sure. I know we’ve been here before, this motif is not new. But this has got to be a record. Shy of actual, visible penetration, this was porn produced for a market that includes minors. Soft core porn is softer than the video I watched, that I know children watch.
My kids are 4 & 6 and they know all about how babies are made. They’ve seen various animals copulate and give birth, there’s no secrets about sex or death here. It’s a part of the natural world we live in. I’m not going to tell my children the horses are wrestling, or the rooster is going for a piggy back ride. I don’t think sexuality or deviance needs to be hidden. However, I am concerned that the easy access to hyper sexual entertainment could have a negative impact on a developing sense of self.
There was a bit on CBC the other day, some douchebag trying to justify why he runs a dating website for married folk who want an easier way to cheat. My time spent online, I’m not looking to swap my husband. I’m surfing the local poultry swappers website. I’m in a Gaga free world.
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Are you an adult? If so, I highly recommend spending the next four minutes watching this super TEDtalk by Cindy Gallop. This it is, this is everything I could ever say on the matter, only said better. And by a way cooler lady.